this morning I was sitting in the office at my son's school, the kids sitting waiting to see the principle i knew my name. They were all sitting there not understanding what they did wrong, one called a teacher a retard another spit spit balls and my told his teacher he hated her and then skipped detention.  The spitballs I understand I did that myself not that it was right, but calling a teacher a retard or telling them that you hate them is just wrong.  What should we do as parents to these children that want to be in full control of every situation..